Okay, I'll admit from the start that this post is going to contain a Big Whinge.

But seeing as I've already come out of the closet with my views on this issue, I may as well go ahead because, as I said previously, I think respectful openness is important. I also think it is important for Christians to hold each other accountable for views expressed in the public sphere.
Last year, I borrowed a book from Ridley library called "Women, Leadership and the Church" by Jim Reiher and published by Acorn Press in 2006.
https://acornpress.net.au/component/page,shop.product_details/category_id,13/flypage,shop.flypage/product_id,30/option,com_virtuemart/Itemid,26/
Reiher is a lecturer at Tabor College Victoria. However, he clearly writes for an Anglican audience as revealed by the final chapter in the book which deals with the topic of female bishops, the fact that the book was published by Acorn, and the fact that the book carries an endorsement by someone from Ridley.
In this final chapter, Reiher discusses the question of how complementarian (I think he calls them "traditionalist", or "heirarchicalist", or something like that) Anglicans will react when a woman is inevitably installed as bishop in Australia. Here's a rough paraphrase of what he says (I don't have the book in front of me now so I can't quote exactly).
"Complementarian Anglicans have been able to hold out in their denomination, even though there are female priests and female preachers, because they can tell themselves that there is still a male bishop exercising leadership over everything. But what will they do when the denomination eventually ordains a female bishop? Then there will no longer be a male person occupying the highest office, as their views require. I suspect they will then convert to Roman Catholicism, where they can still be under male bishops and a male pope for a while longer, until that denomination also starts to allow women into ordained office."
Can I just say that I found this paragraph highly insulting, uncharitable, and really quite unchristian. It is astounding that Reiher can conclude his book on this sort of note, when he began it by claiming that he wishes to persuade complementarians of his point of view in a forthright and friendly way. Even if his exegetical and theological arguments happened to be persuasive (which I found not to be the case), the malignant spirit expressed in these words undermines the integrity of his case. It is upsetting that this book was published by Acorn and is being commended to evangelical Anglicans in Melbourne. I might add that if a Roman Catholic read these words they would probably be quite insulted too.
I am thankful that so far the egalitarian participants in this forum have been civil towards us complementarians, and hope that civility continues on both sides. I also desperately hope that there aren't too many egalitarian evangelicals out there who, like Reiher, are just hanging out to bid us good riddance once Melbourne appoints a female bishop and we leave for Rome.
Jereth